Photographing Your Children ~ Adjust More Than Your Camera Settings

Discovery, which is the heartbeat of good photography, occurs more readily when the photographer relinquishes self-consciousness for a state of humility and childlike wonderment. Then there is a greater freshness and purity in what you capture on film. ~~Dennis Stock

“…relinquishes self-consciousness for a state of humility and childlike wonderment…” is the first step in capturing better photographs of your children…or anyone or anything. I promise. If this is not where you are coming from with your photography, an attitude adjustment is in order before beginning to concern yourself with a variety of technical skills.

In most instances your camera’s point and shoot mode will do a good job for you in the beginning stage of photography. First, learn to capture what you love to see in a photo. How? Practice. Trial and error. Make mistakes. And consider the following:

    * Relinquish control. Face facts…the child is really in control. If he isn’t happy, no one is. Snap images on the go without limiting your child’s activities. In other words, rearrange yourself, not your child. Follow his movements. (The sports setting is great for a moving child.)

    * If your camera has a continuous shooting mode use it with kids who tend to move around more. Many times it’s the second or third shot in a sequence that is best. Shooting just one frame at a time, you can miss some sweet shots.

    * Do not force a pose. Ever.

    * Give your child a personal object (toy, book, building blocks, paint, dress-up clothes) which holds his interest. Capture the photo when he shows emotion over or deep interest in the object.

    * A smile is nice, but don’t always shoot for a smile. Capture your child experiencing life, show your child’s spirit…those are the moments you really want to remember.

    * Are you having fun? If not, neither is your child. Approach a photo-taking session by telling your child that the two of you are going to have some fun taking photos…and mean it.

    * During the photo session show your child some of the images you’ve captured. Even older babies delight in seeing themselves.

    * If a child is old enough to make choices about what to do for a photo, let him.

    * Get on your child’s level. This keeps your child’s body in the right proportions and avoids those strange distortions…you know, like an head which appears enormous.

    * Sometimes forget the above tip…experiment with a variety of angles/perspectives.

    * Focus on your child and consider the background. You don’t want clutter distracting from the image of your child. (Also, be certain it does not appear that objects are protruding from his head.)

    * Sometimes forget the above and shoot to include more of the child’s surroundings when it adds to the story.

    * Take candid photos. (Remember, the sports setting and continuous shooting mode.)

    * Avoid using flash if at all possible. It is distracting to most children, can be frightening to some and often produces images with a harsh appearance or unwanted shadows. Natural and available light, in my opinion, are best for photographing children. Just takes practice.

    * Another note about flash, it can trigger a seizure in children who are seizure-prone. A flash can also trigger anxiety and emotional outbursts in children who deal with sensory challenges.

    * ZOOM. Get close and fill the frame with your child’s precious face. Focus on his eyes. It is not always desirable to have your child’s full body in the photo. If you are using preset modes, use the portrait setting on your digital camera (usually indicated by the silhouette of a head). The camera will try to blur the background so the subject stands out more from the background (known as a shallow depth of field).

Remember, attitude adjustment…yours. Be patient. Have fun. Don’t expect to always get the perfect shot immediately. Sit back and wait for the right moment, then shoot quickly…shoot often.

Make photography a part of your daily life. That’s how you get the photos you love.

See you here again Saturday, October 25 to talk about capturing images for those holiday greeting cards, including helpful links and photos.

Questions? Please ask in comments…it’s how I’ll know what information you need.


Melody can be found at 5M4SN each week hosting Special Exposure Wednesday and sharing her love of photography the second and fourth Saturdays each month in her column, Photographing Your Children. You will also find her at Slurping Life sharing photos and a few words from her special life.

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14 Responses to Photographing Your Children ~ Adjust More Than Your Camera Settings
  1. Tammy and Parker
    October 11, 2008 | 10:38 am

    I think I am just going to print off all of these posts so I can keep them handy for reference.

    GREAT stuff, Melody.

  2. Julie @ A Celebration Of Our Journey
    October 11, 2008 | 10:47 am

    Thanks! I’ll add some of these to the collection of tips in my head! :D I can’t wait for your next post about this.

  3. Frogs Mom
    October 11, 2008 | 11:40 am

    This is fantastic! Can’t wait to try it all out :0)

    Thanks Melody -

  4. Michelle
    October 11, 2008 | 1:25 pm

    Love this column, Melody — and this is one of my all time favorite shots of Mac (just love that expression — Oh, the possibilities of what he could be wishing ;) )!

  5. PeytonsMom
    October 11, 2008 | 5:17 pm

    Do you PROMISE that I’ll get better pictures out of this? ;)

  6. Maddy
    October 11, 2008 | 7:25 pm

    Very useful tips and I’ll be back for the holiday tips too as they’re too big to duct tape to chairs now.
    Cheers

  7. Christina
    October 11, 2008 | 9:36 pm

    Melody, you rock – great post!

  8. Shannon @ Gabi's World
    October 12, 2008 | 9:31 pm

    Thanks for all of the tips! I have a question regarding recommendations. What kind of camera do you recommend or what features or specifications should we look for when we are looking to buy a camera?

  9. Jenny
    October 14, 2008 | 1:28 am

    Oh my gosh, Melody! These are a ton of great tips!! And most of them I’m doing wrong, so I definitely have lots of area for improvement! Seriously, I’m sure most of those seem like common sense to you, but I read them and kept going “Ohhhh…really?…Oops!” : ) Thank you, thank you!

  10. Janice (5 Minutes for Mom)
    October 14, 2008 | 9:17 pm

    Those are FANTASTIC tips! You made me LOL actually – case you covered a whole BOOK of content in one post! VERY helpful. THANKS

    I am so bad because sometimes I get so stuck on the shot that I want to get, that I get frustrated and grumpy when Jackson acts out. Shooting ADHD children is not easy sometimes. But when I do let him be him, (and relinquish the control I didn’t have anyway! LOL) I get the shot I really did want. ;)

    I need to write a post about that and link to this post!!!

  11. Ecki
    October 16, 2008 | 5:08 pm

    Actually, I have a question regarding photographing my 4 year old with Down syndrome and autism. It’s so hard for me to get a picture of her face, especially her eyes, because she doesn’t make eye contact and doesn’t answer to her name. Any suggestions?

  12. Kristi
    October 22, 2008 | 11:26 am

    Great tips!! Thanks!!

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  14. rushh
    March 5, 2010 | 6:54 am

    cool tips… well arranged and explained every point… i’m sure it’ll help with many photographers too…. keep up the good work…