Comments on: Meeting Girls

By: ShashK

ShashK — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 00:56:31 +0000

I’d be totally lying if I said I was not watching you guys to see what my and Spiff’s future could be. Your insights and window into his future help me enormously. So thank you so much for this.

I have found a book, 22 Things a Woman Must Know – If She Loves A Man With Aspreger’s Syndrome. I’m thinking of handing it out to any girl he’s interested in and vice versa. Too much?

Thank you SO much Laura. And thank you too, Matthew.

By: Barbara

Barbara — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 17:29:38 +0000

No surprise, I’m thinking a cognitive approach…How able is Matt to think ahead slash plan ahead slash functionally deal with the future? For whatever ability he has along those lines, use that thought process to SLOW his endeavors.

If you can think through – perhaps – write-out for yourself – the MOST detailed steps to meeting girls, perhaps you can keep him in the process long enough to gather more information, hope for more maturation, or a change in his obsessive direction.

Here’s the first step, Matt, before we move you to LA. If you master that then we can talk about the next step. He doesn’t need to see the whole picture, just the next step.
Prost. (Trying to be like Maddy.)

By: Stacie

Stacie — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 16:21:24 +0000

I can’t offer any tips there as Dakota is only 8 with autism. If you mention Girlfriend he gets mad. He don’t like anyone saying the word girl friend. LOL I think the idea of a young mentor is a great idea!

By: MaddyM

MaddyM — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 14:07:24 +0000

I am beginning to read really, really, really slowly because I am getting to the end and I don’t want to get to the end…….there again, if you continue to post about what is effectively the ‘future’ maybe I can finish you book.
Cheers